Love marriage v/s arrange marriage
Marriage is a bond/truss between two humans – a male and a
female, for whole life legal relationship in the presence of relatives and
invitees. A relation agreed (verified by families of both male and female) between
a woman and a man to live together as husband and wife for ever in front of
relatives and all invitees is called marriage. It is not only a relation of two
people but also a relation of two families. Two families whether known or
unknown to each other tied relation as in-laws relatives to each other in the
name of marriage of two persons of each one’s families. Marriage is not just a
relation of two people, it is a relation of two souls, agreements, love,
respect, caring for ever, responsibilities for each other also. It is a vast
meaning which is understood being in married life. There are some bonds which
are to be agreed at the time of marriage. It is to start a new life with new
responsibilities for a new family, new trends of a successful happy life.
There are two types of marriages in the society named arrange
marriage and love marriage. Both are marriages in terms but both have different
architecture, different view, different understanding. Although, life,
responsibilities, liabilities are same in both types of marriages.
Arrange marriage :
Arrange marriage is a contract, decision, agreement of two
families for the relation between their family parts for the whole life. In
meeting before the decision, both families conversate each other about their
rituals, trend of life, personal details, occupation, and later decide for
marriage after discussions with their own family members. It is a matter of whole
life relation for two persons and two families, therefore all family members’
and relatives’ advice is given preference. When maximum family members agree
for the same point of view, then decision further is okayed. Both the family
identify each other’s cultures, thoughts, behaviour, social status, occupation,
family income and its source. All these features are the base of decision for
marriage relationship. This is all verified by all family members and decision
after everyone’s agreement is finalized.
A family attaches to other family. What their views are for a
new relation and because it is going to be a relation for the whole life, every
step of decision is agreed after well searched information. It is not only a
marriage of one family member to one family member of other family, it is a
relation of two families. Therefore, both families satisfy themselves with proper
information about each other. After a long or may be short discussions and
meetings, both families decide and agree for the marriage. Groom’s and bride’s decision is prefered the
most because their new life is to be started and their like and dislike is the
most preferable. In arrange marriage, both male and female don’t know each
other and their first meeting is the basis of their acquaintance. Their
agreement after their meeting let their families decide for various further
rituals.
Love marriage:
Love marriage is the agreement between two opposite sex
persons to live and spend whole life together in the bond of marriage. This is
the decision of both male and female without any agreement of both the families
before. Their marriage may be organized by both the families’ agreement or they
themselves tie knot of marriage relationship in presence of some of their well
wishers. Later, after their marriage, families of both agree and organize a
reception party for the people in their society as they feel acceptance for the
marriage. It depends on the acceptance of both the families. Love agreement
between two opposite sex and later their marriage with their own decision, either
in agreement of both the families or not, is called a love marriage. In this
marriage, both know each other for some time or for a long period of time, they
like each other may be because of their
beauty, their culture, their behavior, their life profile, what ever would be
the reason, both agree and their own self decision to live together in a
relationship for ever in marriage is love marriage. They have several meetings often
together basis on their time availability, they understand each other, know
each other’s families’ cultures, each other’s behavior, life style, and many
things in their meetings. After a short or a long acquaintance, they agree for
a permanent relation with each other. Their marriage may be decided later by
their families or they inform their family after their marriage. Family if
accepts their decision, arrange their marriage or a reception party in the
society.
Marriage in both the kinds are relation of two opposite sex
persons for ever for the whole life. It is to state that life after marriage
should be happy and they both move successfully in their relationship.
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