why old age homes?

 

                      why old age homes?

               

A family is a little world with some people having blood relation with each other, including father, mother, children, grand parents. There may be a big family or a small one. The number of children may be more or it may be a joint family. There is a system of running a family. Father mother both take care of their whole family. The whole expenses are managed by them. Mostly father is the earner of a family and mother is a home manager. It is found in many families that both parents i.e, father and mother work for their family expenses support. It depends on the basis of family to family needs and choice of life status. But the system that parents manage the family expenses and take care of kids for the good of their present and future life is continuous in every century. Parents perform their every best effort efficiently to manage every need of their family and their most important valuable initiative is looking for their kids’ best future life. They strive hard for their kids’ good future and ensure that their every need is fulfilled. Whether parents are from a poor, middle class or upper class family, the only main ambition of their life is the success of their kids under their conservation. This is their duty and natural responsibility. All parents fulfill the demands of their kids according to their earning capacity and let their kids enjoy life on the basis of facilities provided by them although themselves being in hardships.

It is a theory of a family life. A family is everything for its all members. For the parents, managing and controlling things for their family’s goodness, is the top most priority of their life. They sacrifice their whole life, their happiness, their own wishes, even they forget about their own care, and dedicate themselves for the upbringing of their family. Their family’s success is the success of their life, they undergo through this belief. This is the system of a family going centuries to centuries and parents are performing their responsibilities even out of their capacity.

Now, there is a truth in the world/society of humans that there are old age homes. What are old age homes? It is to be understood by all people, youngsters, parents, everyone.  An old age home is the place where old people live who are abandoned, extracted by their kids. The kids, who because of any reason feel unable to care, upkeep their old parents leave their old parents at old age homes. It is harsh to state that the parents who dedicate their whole life for the well- being of their kids and upbring them for their good future, their kids leave them with indifference at old age home. Such condition of old parents can only be understood but the reality is that it can not be actually felt in fact. The loyalty of parents is ever lasting and every green but the kids when grow up and start earning for their own family, then parents are a separate portion of expenses for some them. It is not so for all old parents but it is a truth of society. There are a number of old age homes where a large number of old people are seen surviving on the mercy of some NGOs or donation by generous people. This is a bitter truth seen in the world, which can not be denied. The grown up kids who feel uncomfortable in bearing expenses of their old parents forget that their parents sacrificed their own desires and did every hardship for bringing up their kids by fulfilling their all wishes. How is it possible for those kids to leave their parents at old age homes? But, a sour truth it is.

It is the duty of every child to care his parents when they grow old and they should not feel secluded any how being with their kids. A system of the world where parents manage the family, then the parents should be well cared and serviced by the kids in return. This is not the return of services to parents, this is the responsibility of all kids to concern their care.  Nature returns all deeds committed by humans. Parents, who dedicate their life for their kids, expect care by their kids in their old age. But for some old parents, their dreams overturn and they find themselves at old age home. The mindset of young people should be fabricated and they must be made understood that their parents are their responsibility. When parents live in anxiety for their kids’ good future and earn hard for their successful upbringing then the duty of the grown up kids begin to just care their parents and do not let them feel or live an abandoned life. All old parents have right to live a happy cared life in their own family and this right should be maintained.